{"id":15516,"date":"2013-08-07T12:43:59","date_gmt":"2013-08-07T20:43:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/?p=15516"},"modified":"2013-08-07T14:20:49","modified_gmt":"2013-08-07T22:20:49","slug":"no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/07\/no\/","title":{"rendered":"no."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>a quick post about something i&#8217;ve been thinking about a lot lately:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/no_martharich.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15518\" title=\"no_martharich\" src=\"http:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/no_martharich.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"232\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/no_martharich.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/no_martharich-300x154.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;NO&#8221;. it&#8217;s the new black.<\/p>\n<p>i am a people pleaser. i always have been. i&#8217;m also super-duper type A so i never want to miss an opportunity&#8230; of any kind <em>{i&#8217;m told that i suffer from FOMO &#8211; fear of missing out}<\/em>. granted, the result of this condition has been lots and lots of amazingly cool things that i am so blessed to have been part of, but &#8230; i&#8217;m tired &#8230; the weird thing is, i didn&#8217;t even realize it. that&#8217;s just how i operate &#8211; a zillion things in my head at once, heart racing, go go go, etc etc. it wasn&#8217;t until this summer that i made a conscious choice to start saying that scary little two-letter word&#8230; no. i felt a lot of guilt the first few times i tried it out, but miraculously the world didn&#8217;t fall apart! no one was mad at me either. weird. not what i was expecting. once the guilt faded i actually felt a huge sense of relief. i&#8217;ll get back to my regular life come september, but i am definitely going to throw my new favorite word into the mix a lot more often! you should give it a whirl&#8230; it&#8217;s fantastic.<\/p>\n<p><em>{art from the sketchbook of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/cargocollective.com\/martharich\" target=\"_blank\">martha rich<\/a>}<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>a quick post about something i&#8217;ve been thinking about a lot lately: &#8220;NO&#8221;. it&#8217;s the new black. i am a people pleaser. i always have been. i&#8217;m also super-duper type A so i never want to miss an opportunity&#8230; of any kind {i&#8217;m told that i suffer from FOMO &#8211; fear of missing out}. granted, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,7,55],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15516"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15516"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15516\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15521,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15516\/revisions\/15521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15516"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15516"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thejealouscurator.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15516"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}